I do not understand Indian guys and gals.

They live outside India. They date people. They commit to relationship, but thats just it. They are so shit scared of their parents and society, that just can finish what they started.

In recent time, I've heard from 3 different people who were led to believe that they were loved and going to be married to him/her, and then...they go back to India for a visit, and come back with a wife or husband. I mean...what is that !!!

If you are looking for fun, don't get the girl (mostly) or the guy get involved with you with promises of marriage or long term relationship.

If you ARE lloking to get married with the person you fall in love with, but not have guts to stand up to your parents and/or society, DON'T FALL IN LOVE !!!

How hard is this to understand. While you are dilly dallying with the thought of marrying or not, and then actually not marrying, the whole Indian community is becoming infamous for individuals being mistreated. And then I hear, "I WILL NAVER DATE AN INDIAN GUY/GAL".

This is so sad. Common people...get some courage, to fight either your feelings or your parents.